Archive - whispers of oizys

May 2025

stop craving validation from people you don't like

why do you want to be validated by people you don't even admire?

May 25 •

tunmise adebowale

life is a painting in greyscale

yet the world tries to paint it black and white

May 18 •

tunmise adebowale

monsters we make

Joan Didion once said, we tell ourselves stories in order to live.

May 11 •

tunmise adebowale

the overwhelming presence of western media

i do not listen to one direction nor have i watched gilmore girls

May 4 •

tunmise adebowale

April 2025

i aspire to be a disagreeable and selfish woman

becoming more comfortable with disappointing others

Apr 27 •

tunmise adebowale

for dessert, i will have morally grey men

are they villains or simply human?

Apr 20 •

tunmise adebowale

for dinner, i will have misunderstood monsters

who is the monster and who is the man?

Apr 13 •

tunmise adebowale

for lunch, i will have tragic lovers

lovers doomed to the narrative

Apr 6 •

tunmise adebowale

March 2025

what does it feel like to die?

People have spoken about how disquieting the thought of dying is, about vanishing, about ceasing to exist while the world carries on, unchanged.

Mar 30 •

tunmise adebowale

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