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Sapph's avatar

Thissss! My goodness, the books are one thing. What about the songs? And movies? And commercials? I hear lyrics and see billboards and sometimes catch MVs that have me wondering what is going on. Do musicians have nothing better to sing? What's with the constant fixation with and sexualisation of women? Ads that leave me wondering what has a woman, -or even worse, an almost naked woman- got to do with this thing that you're advertising? It's awful to say the least, and the people (read as 'women') who see nothing wrong with it are the worst of the lot.

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tunmise adebowale's avatar

yes, unfortunately it’s embedded into our society and our media. it seems many people don’t know how to convey stories or messages about women without making it sexual or sometimes they sexualise women and it wasn’t relevant to their work. just like you said, the women who seem okay with it are part of this problem

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Tasha Dawn's avatar

Beautiful last line, "Maybe it is time to let the muse step down from her pedestal and walk away, free to tell her own story."

Reading stories with female voices written by men is too often done poorly!

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tunmise adebowale's avatar

thank you for reading! yes, they're often not executed well

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elizabeth's avatar

this is all so true and i hope more people get to see it and have their eyes opened

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tunmise adebowale's avatar

this! thank you for reading :)

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Libby's avatar

CHEF’S KISS. So well done. Thank you for writing :)

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tunmise adebowale's avatar

AWW thank you for reading :D

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dalal almumin's avatar

you articulated this so so well

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tunmise adebowale's avatar

aw this made me smile :) thank you for reading

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kay ✮'s avatar

so powerful and real. thank you for finding a beautiful way to articulate something so simple at heart, but has been made complex.

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tunmise adebowale's avatar

my pleasure :) it’s a thought that has been living in my mind and i decided to let it out. thank you for reading!

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