“No wonder ur single that is so selfish” is CRAZYYY work .. rather be single that endure a relationship that doesn’t align w my values . Life is tooooo short to settle
you're so right, and it's incredibly sad the kinds of warped psychology people adopt to be in a relationship - as if being "in a relationship" is better than anything else you could have or be or want.
a relationship is always caring, always hearing, always kind. if it isn't, then it's not a relationship.
Thankfully I'm seeing so many more women choose being single over being in miserable relationships so I do think things are improving and I hope they keep improving because so many people do have unhealthy attachment styles and notions about love.. :( It is worrisome. Your perspective is definitely healthier!
“No wonder ur single that is so selfish” is CRAZYYY work .. rather be single that endure a relationship that doesn’t align w my values . Life is tooooo short to settle
exactly. there are enough challenges in the world, why would i add an unnecessary one to my life?
you're so right, and it's incredibly sad the kinds of warped psychology people adopt to be in a relationship - as if being "in a relationship" is better than anything else you could have or be or want.
a relationship is always caring, always hearing, always kind. if it isn't, then it's not a relationship.
exactly, you understand. i don't know why people think a relationship is not supposed to be kind and caring?
Kindness & consideration being deemed as selfish…ugh it’s terrible out here!
i know! truly disappointed to see essential values being regarded as selfish
Period! I have never been interested in a love where I’m miserable 80% of the time. If that makes me selfish then so be it idc
exactly! why make ourselves miserable just to be in a relationship?
Thankfully I'm seeing so many more women choose being single over being in miserable relationships so I do think things are improving and I hope they keep improving because so many people do have unhealthy attachment styles and notions about love.. :( It is worrisome. Your perspective is definitely healthier!
thank you so much! yes it is getting better, and i hope it continues to improve :)
This is beautiful
thank you :)
so good and succinct! thank you for this
thank you for reading! i try my best :)
preach girl